I went to Ole Miss ( I am from Nashville) where I graduated with a Business Management degree and it was off to the real world. Well, not immediately. I decided to take a year off and I lived in Destin, FL and Vail, CO. It was a dream and I highly recommend going away for a while to everyone. I scooped ice cream and skied, life was good.
Then, it was time for the real world. I decided to move to Memphis because my now-husband was in law school in Oxford, MS which is 45 minutes away and I had several good friends living there. Besides, if it was good enough for Elvis, it was good enough for me!
My first job was in sales and very short lived for several reasons, mostly I hate sales. My second job was with a Technology company and ended up being mostly sales. I HATED THIS JOB. I mean hated it! We are talking the last months I was there I would go downstairs regularly and call my Mom who would remind me I couldn't quit until I had another job, since EVERY day I wanted to quit. This was a bad time. Well, when you hate what you do, you have 2 options-stay miserable or figure out what you really want to do. You know what? Life is too short to be miserable. That is where this book came in-
48 Days To The Work You Love. I had heard about it from my man Dave Ramsey (a financial guru who will tell you like it is and trust me, most of the time you don't want to hear it). He endorsed this book and I decided to give it a try. It has been several years since I read it so I can't remember the details but a large part is focusing on what you like and how to get there.I knew I wasn't cut out for sales. I knew I didn't want to be at a desk all day, every day. I knew that I had a creative side that I wanted to put to use. I had always loved decorating, even as a little kid. While I was doing this soul searching, I took another job doing marketing at BPI, a flooring distributor.
This was one of those moves in life that you know someone is looking out for you. It was a great job, with a great company, with great people, and I was exposed to several brands and products, all home related. While I knew it wouldn't be permanent, I was sad to leave.
As life goes, things were changing and Patrick (my now husband) took a job in Birmingham, AL so I left Memphis.
At some point, after A LOT of thought I decided to go back to school for Interior Design. Trust me, I didn't just wake up one morning and say, "I think being a designer will be fun", it was a LONG process.
(image Southern Accents)That August I started classes at Samford for Interior Design and a few weeks later I went looking for a part time job in the industry. This is the part of the story where my whole life changed. My adviser at school had written down a list of names (from the phone book) of designers I should go talk to. I was on my way to one in particular and suddenly changed course and ended up in a different office first.
(Image Southern Accents)My future boss, Jenny, shared an office with the person I went to go see and when I told her why I was there she said, "I don't know if she needs help, but I am hiring an assistant". So I was hired then and there. It was a trial run because as Jenny put it, "you either have it or you don't". Jenny is a decorator, not a designer, and I quickly learned that I wanted to decorate, not necessarily design, so I dropped out of the program to work full time for her. (I would love to be a designer, but 4 more years of school that I was footing from my own pocket was not worth it, and decorating is what I love).
(Image Southen Accents)Let's pause to say this, and I am not trying to be cheesy- I truly believe God has a plan for each of us and you go in life where you are supposed to. Finding Jenny was one of those things I know he had planned. That job was the most crucial step in my career to date. Not only is she a great decorator, but she was a great friend in a new city, and she and her sister (our office manager) have a strong faith that made an impact on me. The things I learned there would have taken me years to learn on my own and for that I am grateful.
(Image Southern Accents)So after about a year of working for her, different people started asking for help and I started my own company on the side. It started with 2 clients and grew from there. It wasn't easy and there have been many tears along the way. All my business is basically word of mouth. I am very lucky because while growing my business I have been able to continue working for Jenny a little which has made a huge difference.
(my first yard sign, it is ridiculous the joy little things like this can bring you)So, that is how I got here. A few years later, I am still growing my business, which as we all know is not the best timing, but so far so good. I think one thing that has helped me is that since I am young and fairly new to the business I am not as intimidating as decorators can be. I love small and big projects and I understand budgets as well as anyone does.
If you are thinking about starting your own business I say go for it. There has not been an easy moment since I started- I didn't even sleep the first 3 months, seriously- but it is very rewarding. If you currently hate what you are doing, you need to change. I know, it is not that easy, but take one step at a time and it will get easier.
So that is it in a nutshell. Feel free to e-mail more specific questions. Sorry for the mini novel, once I got started I couldn't stop! As for the future, who knows. I love to help people but I hate the business transaction part of it, I would much rather do it for free, but that is not an option. I would love to own a home store (I know this contradicts the last sentence), but that is a big step......
